सफलता के 20 मँत्र

                 ...सफलता के 20 मँत्र ...

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1.खुद की कमाई से कम खर्च हो ऐसी जिन्दगी बनाओ..!
2. दिन मेँ कम से कम 3 लोगो की प्रशंशा करो..!
3. खुद की भुल स्वीकार ने मेँ कभी भी संकोच मत करो..!
4. किसी के सपनो पर हँसो मत..!
5. आपके पीछे खडे व्यक्ति को भी कभी कभी आगे जाने का मौका दो..!
6. रोज हो सके तो सुरज को उगता हुए देखे..!
7. खुब जरुरी हो तभी कोई चीज उधार लो..!
8. किसी के पास से कुछ जानना हो तो विवेक से दो बार ...पुछो..!
9. कर्ज और शत्रु को कभी बडा मत होने दो..!
10. ईश्वर पर पुरा भरोशा रखो..!
11. प्रार्थना करना कभी मत भुलो, प्रार्थना मेँ अपार शक्ति होती है..!
12. अपने काम से मतलब रखो..!
13. समय सबसे ज्यादा किमती है, इसको फालतु कामो मेँ खर्च मत करो..!
14. जो आपके पास है, उसी मेँ खुश रहना सिखो..!
15. बुराई कभी भी किसी कि भी मत करो करो, क्योकिँ बुराई नाव मेँ छेद समान है, बुराई छोटी हो बडी नाव तो डुबोही देती है..!
16. हमेशा सकारात्मक सोच रखो..!
17. हर व्यक्ति एक हुनर लेकर पैदा होता बस उस हुनर को दुनिया के सामने लाओ..!
18. कोई काम छोटा नही होता हर काम बडा होता है जैसे कि सोचो जो काम आप कर रहे हो अगर आप वह काम आप नही करते हो तो दुनिया पर क्या असर होता..?
19. सफलता उनको ही मिलती है जो कुछ करते है
20. कुछ पाने के लिए कुछ खोना नही बल्कि कुछ करना पडता है !

Ten tips to become successful in your career

Tips to succeed in your career

Because the world has become so competitive, you will have to do your best to secure your share of success. The following are tips to get you ahead in your career.

1. Priorities and goals

What are your priorities of the day? Make a list and of your priorities and plan your day. The tasks of the day must be outlined with the most important and urgent ones on top.

Likewise determine your short-term and long-term goals and evaluate your progress frequently.

2. Be focused

Are you really present physically and mentally. Try to block out all distractions so that you have the time to truly focus on your tasks and career.

3. Broaden your skills

Nothing remains the same and so do job requirements. Update your knowledge and skills. Seek improvement of your know-hows. Attend seminars, conferences, read books, be an eternal learner.

4. Socialize

Be ready to participate in social functions. Be open to new acquaintances. Meet new people and deal with them respectfully and enthusiastically. Be an active listener; you will surely learn something new...

5. Know your merits

Know your strengths and weaknesses. If you think you deserve a position or promotion, claim it.

6. Accept challenge

Through challenge you will reach areas of your personality you have never discovered before. It is a good idea to step away from your comfort zone to explore new horizons. If you settle into a routine and play it safe all the time, you will never get ahead in your career. 'If you always do what you've always done, you'll only get what you've already got'

7. Communication

Learn to communicate effectively. Listen to what others are saying and focus on how to give and receive constructive feedback, to persuade effectively and to ask for help and collect information.

8. Avoid gossip

Avoid office gossip about colleagues and the boss. Be respectful and work for the good of the company.

9. Relax

Relax and do something different, a hobby that you love doing. Take time off for yourself. This will help boost your productivity during week days.

10. Seek satisfaction

If you are disappointed with what you are doing, try to transform it into something you love. If you fail, it might be a good idea to do something different. As Confucius said: 'Choose a job you love, and you will never have to work a day in your life. '

11 Rules For Success, From The People Who Got It Right

1. Focus On The Process, Not The Result
"Life is a journey, not a destination."

-- Ralph Waldo Emerson

“I never looked at the consequences of missing a big shot ... when you think about the consequences you always think of a negative result."

-- Michael Jordan

"Life does not have to be perfect to be wonderful."

-- Annette Funicello

2. Pay Attention -- To The Right Things
"Being the richest man in the cemetery doesn't matter to me. Going to bed at night saying we've done something wonderful, that's what matters to me."

-- Steve Jobs

"The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched -- they must be felt with the heart."

-- Helen Keller

“If we are not fully ourselves, truly in the present moment, we miss everything.”

-- Thich Nhat Hanh

3. Put In What You Want Out -- And Maybe Put In A Little Bit More
“I slept and I dreamed that life is all joy. I woke and I saw that life is all service. I served and I saw that service is joy.”

-- Kahlil Gibran

"No one is useless in this world who lightens the burden of another."

-- Charles Dickens

"I've learned that you shouldn't go through life with a catcher's mitt on both hands; you need to be able to throw something back."

-- Maya Angelou

"We make a living by what we get. We make a life by what we give."

-- Winston Churchill

4. Play Your Strengths. Don't Feel Ashamed Of Your Weaknesses
"Everybody is a genius. But if you judge a fish by its ability to climb a tree, it will live its whole life believing that it is stupid."

-- Albert Einstein

"Strength does not come from winning. Your struggles develop your strengths. When you go through hardships and decide not to surrender, that is strength."

-- Arnold Schwarzenegger

"The person born with a talent they are meant to use will find their greatest happiness in using it."

-- Johann Wolfgang von Goethe

5. Gratitude Is A Necessity
"Be thankful for what you have; you'll end up having more. If you concentrate on what you don't have, you will never, ever have enough."

-- Oprah Winfrey

"Gratitude unlocks the fullness of life. It turns what we have into enough, and more. It turns denial into acceptance, chaos to order, confusion to clarity. It can turn a meal into a feast, a house into a
home, a stranger into a friend."

-- Melody Beattie

6. Remember: Instinct Is Not Synonymous With Impulse
"When angry, count to 10 before you speak. If very angry, count to 100."

 -- Thomas Jefferson

"Life was always a matter of waiting for the right moment to act."

 -- Paulo Coelho

"Patience is bitter, but its fruit is sweet."

 -- Jean-Jacques Rousseau

7. Happiness Takes Work
"Happiness is the consequence of personal effort. You fight for it, strive for it, insist upon it, and sometimes even travel around the world looking for it. You have to participate relentlessly in the
manifestations of your own blessings."

-- Elizabeth Gilbert

"Happiness is not a goal; it is a by-product."

-- Eleanor Roosevelt

"Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your own actions."

-- Dalai Lama

8. Simplicity Is Key
"It's the little details that are vital. Little things make big things happen."

-- John Wooden

"A table, a chair, a bowl of fruit and a violin; what else does a man need to be happy?"

-- Albert Einstein

"Remember this, that very little is needed to make a happy life."

-- Marcus Aurelius

9. You Can't, And You Shouldn't, Please Everyone
"Always bear in mind that your own resolution to succeed is more important than any other."

-- Abraham Lincoln

"If everybody loves you, something is wrong. Find at least one enemy to keep you alert."

-- Paulo Coelho

"I don't know the key to success, but the key to failure is trying to please everybody."

-- Bill Cosby

10. Have Faith. Lots Of It 
"Go ahead, do something impossible."

-- Seth Godin

"Do one thing every day that scares you."

-- Eleanor Roosevelt

“The best way to predict the future is to create it.”

-- Peter Drucker

"If we did all the things we are capable of, we would literally astound ourselves."

-- Thomas Edison

11. Passion. It's All About Passion
"You have to go wholeheartedly into anything in order to achieve anything worth having.”

-- Frank Lloyd Wright

"Inaction breeds doubt and fear. Action breeds confidence and courage. If you want to conquer fear, do not sit and think about it. Go out and get busy."

-- Dale Carnegie

"I have no special talent. I am only passionately curious."

-- Albert Einstein

4 Ways To Know Your Goals Are Too Small

When deciding on long- and short-term goals, perhaps the Goldilocks and the Three Bears fable best exemplifies a healthy process.

If you aim too high, not attaining them can be too hot.

Aim too low, and your motivation could get cold.

Setting the best goals for your needs is a lot like serving porridge, 

it needs to be just right.

That being said, there is no right recipe or perfect temperature that works for everyone.

Goals, like porridge, is not a one type fits all product. The happy medium goal for each of us can be vastly different from that of others.

Although one common way of thinking is to avoid overreach, aiming too small can also be problematic.

Consider these ways to identify goals that are lacking in some sense.

1. Your Goals Do Not Challenge Your Abilities

Striving for improvement, achievement and success are inherently difficult.

The underlying idea about setting and reaching life goals is that these things take effort.

Making a hardboiled egg requires putting water in a pan, turning on the stove, dropping in an egg and waiting.

The little feeling that occurs during the egg-boiling process hardly sets your blood coursing through your veins.

Small, everyday duties do not inspire us or push our limits in the slightest.

When your goals do not ask you to work harder, maintain a laser focus or get the blood pumping, it’s important to aim a tad higher.

A healthy goal forces us a little out of our comfort zone.

2. Your Goals Do Not Create Substantial Life Change

Consider a goal of increasing your wealth by 1 percent or taking a 10-day vacation over last year’s one-week getaway.

Such modest changes would hardly result in a significant improvement on the financial or leisure fronts. That’s because they are not even remotely game changers.

Robust goals take your current situation and enhance it to a noticeable level.

For example, a 5-percent income boost might help you build a deck, purchase a new car or travel to a faraway tropical island for a dream vacation.

A 10-percent uptick could do even more.

While money and leisure are among the more common tangible measures, vibrant goals result in a life change that you experience on a personal level.

Goals that don’t impact you in a meaningful fashion are often too small.

3. Your Goals Do Not Inspire You

If you have ever played sports or competed in some manner, the feeling that the game is on the line is a moment of pure passion.

You want to win and so do others. You all feel amped, and life goals should be no different.

This is not to say that everyday people need to try out for the NFL to gain a high level of motivation.

But inspirational goals garner your focus and call on your inner self to focus and stay on task.

They have a pull that draws your attention and makes you want to achieve.

One of the indicators that a goal is too small trails back to your lack of enthusiasm.

4. Your Goal Lacks Specific Details

The idea of getting more fit or earning more money sounds great.

It may even look good as one sentence on a piece of paper in a fortune cookie sort of way.

But serious goals include some level of detail that underscore your determination to reach them.

Take the example of losing 10 pounds in the upcoming year.

A general idea is fine, but specifics about dietary changes, exercise regimens, and other essential details about how to get from today to the day you earn the win are often necessary.

Such information also helps hold your feet to the fire, so to speak.

Without details!, details!, details!, your goal may be too small.

When developing a committed action plan to set and achieve goals, it’s important that your expectations are realistic, substantial efforts are required, and you are fully invested.

There’s no reason your porridge should be too hot or too cold.