Wednesday, May 12, 2021

Motivational and Inspiring Short Stories About Life

Motivational and Inspiring Short Stories About Life

1. Everyone Has a Story in Life

A 24 year old boy seeing out from the train’s window shouted…

“Dad, look the trees are going behind!”

Dad smiled and a young couple sitting nearby, looked at the 24 year old’s childish behavior with pity, suddenly he again exclaimed…

“Dad, look the clouds are running with us!”

The couple couldn’t resist and said to the old man…

“Why don’t you take your son to a good doctor?” The old man smiled and said…“I did and we are just coming from the hospital, my son was blind from birth, he just got his eyes today.”

Every single person on the planet has a story. Don’t judge people before you truly know them. The truth might surprise you.

2. Shake off Your Problems

A man’s favorite donkey falls into a deep precipice. He can’t pull it out no matter how hard he tries. He therefore decides to bury it alive.

Soil is poured onto the donkey from above. The donkey feels the load, shakes it off, and steps on it. More soil is poured.

It shakes it off and steps up. The more the load was poured, the higher it rose. By noon, the donkey was grazing in green pastures.

After much shaking off (of problems) And stepping up (learning from them), One will graze in GREEN PASTURES.

Related: 3 Inspirational Stories That Touch Your Heart

3. The Elephant Rope

As a man was passing the elephants, he suddenly stopped, confused by the fact that these huge creatures were being held by only a small rope tied to their front leg. No chains, no cages. It was obvious that the elephants could, at anytime, break away from their bonds but for some reason, they did not.

He saw a trainer nearby and asked why these animals just stood there and made no attempt to get away. “Well,” trainer said, “when they are very young and much smaller we use the same size rope to tie them and, at that age, it’s enough to hold them. As they grow up, they are conditioned to believe they cannot break away. They believe the rope can still hold them, so they never try to break free.”

The man was amazed. These animals could at any time break free from their bonds but because they believed they couldn’t, they were stuck right where they were.

Like the elephants, how many of us go through life hanging onto a belief that we cannot do something, simply because we failed at it once before?

Failure is part of learning; we should never give up the struggle in life.

4. Potatoes, Eggs, and Coffee Beans

Once upon a time a daughter complained to her father that her life was miserable and that she didn’t know how she was going to make it. She was tired of fighting and struggling all the time. It seemed just as one problem was solved, another one soon followed.

Her father, a chef, took her to the kitchen. He filled three pots with water and placed each on a high fire. Once the three pots began to boil, he placed potatoes in one pot, eggs in the second pot, and ground coffee beans in the third pot.

He then let them sit and boil, without saying a word to his daughter. The daughter, moaned and impatiently waited, wondering what he was doing.

After twenty minutes he turned off the burners. He took the potatoes out of the pot and placed them in a bowl. He pulled the eggs out and placed them in a bowl.

He then ladled the coffee out and placed it in a cup. Turning to her he asked. “Daughter, what do you see?”

“Potatoes, eggs, and coffee,” she hastily replied.

“Look closer,” he said, “and touch the potatoes.” She did and noted that they were soft. He then asked her to take an egg and break it. After pulling off the shell, she observed the hard-boiled egg. Finally, he asked her to sip the coffee. Its rich aroma brought a smile to her face.

“Father, what does this mean?” she asked.

He then explained that the potatoes, the eggs and coffee beans had each faced the same adversity– the boiling water.

However, each one reacted differently.

The potato went in strong, hard, and unrelenting, but in boiling water, it became soft and weak.

The egg was fragile, with the thin outer shell protecting its liquid interior until it was put in the boiling water. Then the inside of the egg became hard.

However, the ground coffee beans were unique. After they were exposed to the boiling water, they changed the water and created something new.

“Which are you,” he asked his daughter. “When adversity knocks on your door, how do you respond? Are you a potato, an egg, or a coffee bean? “

Moral:In life, things happen around us, things happen to us, but the only thing that truly matters is what happens within us.

Which one are you?

5. A Dish of Ice Cream

In the days when an ice cream sundae cost much less, a 10 year old boy entered a hotel coffee shop and sat at a table. A waitress put a glass of water in front of him.

“How much is an ice cream sundae?”

“50 cents,” replied the waitress.

The little boy pulled his hand out of his pocket and studied a number of coins in it.

“How much is a dish of plain ice cream?” he inquired. Some people were now waiting for a table and the waitress was a bit impatient.

“35 cents,” she said brusquely.

The little boy again counted the coins. “I’ll have the plain ice cream,” he said.

The waitress brought the ice cream, put the bill on the table and walked away. The boy finished the ice cream, paid the cashier and departed.

When the waitress came back, she began wiping down the table and then swallowed hard at what she saw.

There, placed neatly beside the empty dish, were 15 cents – her tip.

Saturday, April 10, 2021

The Ten Rituals of Radiant Living

The Ten Rituals of Radiant Living are a simple morning routine that covers everything you need.


The sages suggest a 10-step morning routine they call the Ten Rituals of Radiant Living to help you live this virtue.

1. The Ritual of Early Awakening. Six hours of sleep and seeing the sunrise. Of course, you have to figure out how much you need yourself, but this is what they suggest.
2. The Ritual of Solitude. Always make a few minutes to practice silence after waking up.
3. The Ritual of Physicality. Move, get up, do some exercise. Whatever gets the blood flowing.
4. The Ritual of Live Nourishment. A vegetarian diet based on fresh food is what the sages follow.
5. The Ritual of Abundant Knowledge. Keep your mind stimulated with a bit of reading or studying.
6. The Ritual of Personal Reflection. Did you do your best today? What could you have done better?
7. The Ritual of Music. Listen to music often to never get stuck in a bad mood.
8. The Ritual of Spoken Word. Write down a short mantra you can repeat to yourself throughout the day.
9. The Ritual of Congruent Character. Always follow your principles. Write them down, be aware of them and stick to them.
10. The Ritual of Simplicity. Ruthlessly live your priorities and remove everything else that’s unnecessary. 

Wednesday, July 17, 2019

सफलता के 20 मँत्र

                 ...सफलता के 20 मँत्र ...
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1.खुद की कमाई से कम खर्च हो ऐसी जिन्दगी बनाओ..!
2. दिन मेँ कम से कम 3 लोगो की प्रशंशा करो..!
3. खुद की भुल स्वीकार ने मेँ कभी भी संकोच मत करो..!
4. किसी के सपनो पर हँसो मत..!
5. आपके पीछे खडे व्यक्ति को भी कभी कभी आगे जाने का मौका दो..!
6. रोज हो सके तो सुरज को उगता हुए देखे..!
7. खुब जरुरी हो तभी कोई चीज उधार लो..!
8. किसी के पास से कुछ जानना हो तो विवेक से दो बार ...पुछो..!
9. कर्ज और शत्रु को कभी बडा मत होने दो..!
10. ईश्वर पर पुरा भरोशा रखो..!
11. प्रार्थना करना कभी मत भुलो, प्रार्थना मेँ अपार शक्ति होती है..!
12. अपने काम से मतलब रखो..!
13. समय सबसे ज्यादा किमती है, इसको फालतु कामो मेँ खर्च मत करो..!
14. जो आपके पास है, उसी मेँ खुश रहना सिखो..!
15. बुराई कभी भी किसी कि भी मत करो करो, क्योकिँ बुराई नाव मेँ छेद समान है, बुराई छोटी हो बडी नाव तो डुबोही देती है..!
16. हमेशा सकारात्मक सोच रखो..!
17. हर व्यक्ति एक हुनर लेकर पैदा होता बस उस हुनर को दुनिया के सामने लाओ..!
18. कोई काम छोटा नही होता हर काम बडा होता है जैसे कि सोचो जो काम आप कर रहे हो अगर आप वह काम आप नही करते हो तो दुनिया पर क्या असर होता..?
19. सफलता उनको ही मिलती है जो कुछ करते है
20. कुछ पाने के लिए कुछ खोना नही बल्कि कुछ करना पडता है !

Thursday, July 11, 2019

Ten tips to become successful in your career

Tips to succeed in your career

Because the world has become so competitive, you will have to do your best to secure your share of success. The following are tips to get you ahead in your career.


1. Priorities and goals

What are your priorities of the day? Make a list and of your priorities and plan your day. The tasks of the day must be outlined with the most important and urgent ones on top.

Likewise determine your short-term and long-term goals and evaluate your progress frequently.


2. Be focused

Are you really present physically and mentally. Try to block out all distractions so that you have the time to truly focus on your tasks and career.


3. Broaden your skills

Nothing remains the same and so do job requirements. Update your knowledge and skills. Seek improvement of your know-hows. Attend seminars, conferences, read books, be an eternal learner.


4. Socialize

Be ready to participate in social functions. Be open to new acquaintances. Meet new people and deal with them respectfully and enthusiastically. Be an active listener; you will surely learn something new...


5. Know your merits

Know your strengths and weaknesses. If you think you deserve a position or promotion, claim it.


6. Accept challenge

Through challenge you will reach areas of your personality you have never discovered before. It is a good idea to step away from your comfort zone to explore new horizons. If you settle into a routine and play it safe all the time, you will never get ahead in your career. 'If you always do what you've always done, you'll only get what you've already got'


7. Communication

Learn to communicate effectively. Listen to what others are saying and focus on how to give and receive constructive feedback, to persuade effectively and to ask for help and collect information.


8. Avoid gossip

Avoid office gossip about colleagues and the boss. Be respectful and work for the good of the company.


9. Relax

Relax and do something different, a hobby that you love doing. Take time off for yourself. This will help boost your productivity during week days.


10. Seek satisfaction

If you are disappointed with what you are doing, try to transform it into something you love. If you fail, it might be a good idea to do something different. As Confucius said: 'Choose a job you love, and you will never have to work a day in your life. '

11 Rules For Success, From The People Who Got It Right

1. Focus On The Process, Not The Result
"Life is a journey, not a destination."
-- Ralph Waldo Emerson

“I never looked at the consequences of missing a big shot ... when you think about the consequences you always think of a negative result."
-- Michael Jordan

"Life does not have to be perfect to be wonderful."
-- Annette Funicello

2. Pay Attention -- To The Right Things
"Being the richest man in the cemetery doesn't matter to me. Going to bed at night saying we've done something wonderful, that's what matters to me."
-- Steve Jobs

"The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched -- they must be felt with the heart."
-- Helen Keller

“If we are not fully ourselves, truly in the present moment, we miss everything.”
-- Thich Nhat Hanh

3. Put In What You Want Out -- And Maybe Put In A Little Bit More
“I slept and I dreamed that life is all joy. I woke and I saw that life is all service. I served and I saw that service is joy.”
-- Kahlil Gibran

"No one is useless in this world who lightens the burden of another."
-- Charles Dickens

"I've learned that you shouldn't go through life with a catcher's mitt on both hands; you need to be able to throw something back."
-- Maya Angelou

"We make a living by what we get. We make a life by what we give."
-- Winston Churchill

4. Play Your Strengths. Don't Feel Ashamed Of Your Weaknesses
"Everybody is a genius. But if you judge a fish by its ability to climb a tree, it will live its whole life believing that it is stupid."
-- Albert Einstein

"Strength does not come from winning. Your struggles develop your strengths. When you go through hardships and decide not to surrender, that is strength."
-- Arnold Schwarzenegger

"The person born with a talent they are meant to use will find their greatest happiness in using it."
-- Johann Wolfgang von Goethe

5. Gratitude Is A Necessity
"Be thankful for what you have; you'll end up having more. If you concentrate on what you don't have, you will never, ever have enough."
-- Oprah Winfrey

"Gratitude unlocks the fullness of life. It turns what we have into enough, and more. It turns denial into acceptance, chaos to order, confusion to clarity. It can turn a meal into a feast, a house into a
home, a stranger into a friend."
-- Melody Beattie

6. Remember: Instinct Is Not Synonymous With Impulse
"When angry, count to 10 before you speak. If very angry, count to 100."
 -- Thomas Jefferson

"Life was always a matter of waiting for the right moment to act."
 -- Paulo Coelho

"Patience is bitter, but its fruit is sweet."
 -- Jean-Jacques Rousseau

7. Happiness Takes Work
"Happiness is the consequence of personal effort. You fight for it, strive for it, insist upon it, and sometimes even travel around the world looking for it. You have to participate relentlessly in the
manifestations of your own blessings."
-- Elizabeth Gilbert

"Happiness is not a goal; it is a by-product."
-- Eleanor Roosevelt

"Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your own actions."
-- Dalai Lama

8. Simplicity Is Key
"It's the little details that are vital. Little things make big things happen."
-- John Wooden

"A table, a chair, a bowl of fruit and a violin; what else does a man need to be happy?"
-- Albert Einstein

"Remember this, that very little is needed to make a happy life."
-- Marcus Aurelius

9. You Can't, And You Shouldn't, Please Everyone
"Always bear in mind that your own resolution to succeed is more important than any other."
-- Abraham Lincoln

"If everybody loves you, something is wrong. Find at least one enemy to keep you alert."
-- Paulo Coelho

"I don't know the key to success, but the key to failure is trying to please everybody."
-- Bill Cosby

10. Have Faith. Lots Of It 
"Go ahead, do something impossible."
-- Seth Godin

"Do one thing every day that scares you."
-- Eleanor Roosevelt

“The best way to predict the future is to create it.”
-- Peter Drucker

"If we did all the things we are capable of, we would literally astound ourselves."
-- Thomas Edison

11. Passion. It's All About Passion
"You have to go wholeheartedly into anything in order to achieve anything worth having.”
-- Frank Lloyd Wright

"Inaction breeds doubt and fear. Action breeds confidence and courage. If you want to conquer fear, do not sit and think about it. Go out and get busy."
-- Dale Carnegie

"I have no special talent. I am only passionately curious."
-- Albert Einstein

4 Ways To Know Your Goals Are Too Small

When deciding on long- and short-term goals, perhaps the Goldilocks and the Three Bears fable best exemplifies a healthy process.

If you aim too high, not attaining them can be too hot.
Aim too low, and your motivation could get cold.
Setting the best goals for your needs is a lot like serving porridge, 
it needs to be just right.
That being said, there is no right recipe or perfect temperature that works for everyone.
Goals, like porridge, is not a one type fits all product. The happy medium goal for each of us can be vastly different from that of others.
Although one common way of thinking is to avoid overreach, aiming too small can also be problematic.
Consider these ways to identify goals that are lacking in some sense.

1. Your Goals Do Not Challenge Your Abilities
Striving for improvement, achievement and success are inherently difficult.
The underlying idea about setting and reaching life goals is that these things take effort.
Making a hardboiled egg requires putting water in a pan, turning on the stove, dropping in an egg and waiting.
The little feeling that occurs during the egg-boiling process hardly sets your blood coursing through your veins.
Small, everyday duties do not inspire us or push our limits in the slightest.
When your goals do not ask you to work harder, maintain a laser focus or get the blood pumping, it’s important to aim a tad higher.
A healthy goal forces us a little out of our comfort zone.

2. Your Goals Do Not Create Substantial Life Change
Consider a goal of increasing your wealth by 1 percent or taking a 10-day vacation over last year’s one-week getaway.
Such modest changes would hardly result in a significant improvement on the financial or leisure fronts. That’s because they are not even remotely game changers.
Robust goals take your current situation and enhance it to a noticeable level.
For example, a 5-percent income boost might help you build a deck, purchase a new car or travel to a faraway tropical island for a dream vacation.
A 10-percent uptick could do even more.
While money and leisure are among the more common tangible measures, vibrant goals result in a life change that you experience on a personal level.
Goals that don’t impact you in a meaningful fashion are often too small.

3. Your Goals Do Not Inspire You
If you have ever played sports or competed in some manner, the feeling that the game is on the line is a moment of pure passion.
You want to win and so do others. You all feel amped, and life goals should be no different.
This is not to say that everyday people need to try out for the NFL to gain a high level of motivation.
But inspirational goals garner your focus and call on your inner self to focus and stay on task.
They have a pull that draws your attention and makes you want to achieve.
One of the indicators that a goal is too small trails back to your lack of enthusiasm.

4. Your Goal Lacks Specific Details
The idea of getting more fit or earning more money sounds great.
It may even look good as one sentence on a piece of paper in a fortune cookie sort of way.
But serious goals include some level of detail that underscore your determination to reach them.
Take the example of losing 10 pounds in the upcoming year.
A general idea is fine, but specifics about dietary changes, exercise regimens, and other essential details about how to get from today to the day you earn the win are often necessary.
Such information also helps hold your feet to the fire, so to speak.
Without details!, details!, details!, your goal may be too small.
When developing a committed action plan to set and achieve goals, it’s important that your expectations are realistic, substantial efforts are required, and you are fully invested.

There’s no reason your porridge should be too hot or too cold.